Im dating your husband
It’s a perfect example of having your cake and eating it too. Who do you know who would not react in a negative, or destructive way?
It is crazy to imagine that will help anything, in any way.
You are a not a reflection of your husband, you are you.
It is in no way your fault that they chose to misbehave.
Calling it “business” is a shabby excuse for greed.Marriage is meant to be joy filled, not stress-filled. But because this discovery is likely a pretty intense threat over-reacting is all too normal.Of course, your mind will tell you your whole life is threatened. But remember that instinctive reacting always means that, not clear thinking. In our program, which many women and men have used to recover and re-start their marriage, we include an amazing technique to help you.Even when someone KNOWS something is detrimental they will do what they always do.
So, anyone who tells you that all you have to do is this, or that, and everything will be fine, is asking too much. It helps you bring control over your mind, so you can do what is necessary, with a clear head.First: Although it’s unfortunate when a husband’s errant thoughts manifest into such destructive behaviors.